EP 40: Life is a lot like surfing

Andy VandenBerg, CFA
Founder

What's in store for you:

  1. Photo From My Life
  2. Life Thought:
  3. Financial Thought:
  4. Good Sh*t

Photo From My Life:

Everyday after daycare, my son wants to go on a walk. On rare lucky days, he gets to hold both Mama and Dada's hands. Being a parent isn't easy, but this is what it's all about!

Life Thought:

Life is a lot like surfing. Whenever I go surfing, 95% of my time is spent trying to paddle past the break and getting crushed by waves as I attempt to avoid them with a mediocre duck dive. I may only catch a handful of waves in a single session, and I can almost guarantee you they last less than 10-15 seconds. You may be shocked when I tell you that I absolutely love surfing.

Maybe it's the warm water or the fact that you can't be distracted on your phone. I'm not sure. But, what I can tell you is that I've always enjoyed how much surfing and life have in common.

I love life, but at the same time, I spend 95% of my time doing things that may not appear to be fun -- excel sheets, zoom meetings, taking out the trash. However, I've realized that this somewhat boring and tedious 95% of my life is actually essential. It fills my life with meaning and makes me appreciate the great waves when I catch them.

The best days for me are always the ones where I enjoy the "95% of life tasks." Now, the trick is figuring out how to make 100% of days like that.

Financial Thought:

I speak to many 30-50 year olds who are obsessed with maximizing wealth and becoming financially independent. It's a great topic to discuss even if it's not the right goal for most people. I have a relatively simple philosophy on this:

If you want to maximize wealth, you need to own equity. Very few people generate economic freedom through high-paying W2 jobs alone.

Now, when I tell this to people, most assume I'm advising them to quit their high-paying job to buy a company or work at a startup with a large stock package. However, the actual advice I typically give is the opposite.

If you can get paid $500k+ with the stability of a W2 job, it's probably not worth the risk to leave that. However, you have one responsibility:

If you want to maximize wealth, you need to consistently allocate as much of your income as possible into equity ownership stakes (public, PE, etc.). This topic deserves a much longer blog post, but here's a bit of data to highlight this. As with all scenarios I show, I simplify things and there are many caveats. The specific assumptions I used are outlined below.

Scenario 1: High Earner & High Spender. This is most high-earners and I'm not suggesting it's inherently bad. It's only a bad thing if you want to maximize financial independence.

  • This individual makes $500k ($325k post tax) and spends $250k per year. They invest the remaining $75k into stocks (also known as equities). After 20 years, they have ~$3.5m and could spend ~$125k into perpetuity.

Scenario 2: High Earner & High Saver. This is harder to do, but it's what you need to do to maximize financial independence as quickly as possible. Once again, this may not be relevant for everyone.

  • This individual makes $500k ($325k post tax) and spends $150k per year. They invest the remaining $175k into stocks (also known as equities). After only 11 years, they've achieved as much savings as the individual from Scenario 1 earned in 20 years. After 20 years, they have ~$7.5m and could spend ~$300k into perpetuity.

As with everything, some blend of Scenario 1 and Scenario 2 is probably optimal for most people. In reality, this should all be customized based on the individual's specific goal and needs. But, my message is simple. To maximize long-term economic output, you need to own equity.

Assumptions: 35% all-in tax rate. 7% equity returns, spending comes from the 4% rule which has clear downsides, but is simple.

Good Sh*t:

The Fall Guy: My wife and I don't watch a ton of movies. I'd say once every few months, we sit down to watch a movie on Friday night and spend at least 30 minutes looking for something on Prime, Netflix, Apple TV, etc. (Side note: can someone please re-bundle TV?) With this recommendation, I hope I save someone 30 minutes of scrolling before you find out what you want to watch!

Last week we landed on The Fall Guy and had relatively low expectations. While it definitely had a few dumb moments, it was easy to glance over them due to great plot twists, interesting cinematography and some killer stunts. If you're sick of hunting for a movie, this one won't disappoint.

Share this post
Andy VandenBerg, CFA
Founder

Let’s Build Your Financial Future Together

We work with a select group of clients to provide tailored, high-touch wealth management. Ready to see how we can help?

Meet Your Trusted Financial Partner Today

Let’s Start the Conversation About Your Financial Future

Our personalized process ensures you receive expert financial guidance tailored to your unique goals. Get in touch in the way that works best for you—fill out the contact form, send us an email, or schedule a call. However you choose to reach out, we’re here to help you build, grow, and protect your wealth.

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.
By clicking “Submit”, you acknowledge that we collect your name, email address and phone number to respond to your inquiries and provide you information about our products and services in accordance with our Privacy Policy. If you are a California resident, please see our CCPA Notice to California Residents.
Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly insights on investing and life.
Subscribe
By subscribing you agree to with our Privacy Policy and provide consent to receive updates from our company.
Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.
© 2025 VDB Wealth. All right reserved.


VDB Wealth LLC is a registered investment adviser located in the State of Georgia. Registration as an investment adviser does not imply a certain level of skill or training.

The information on this website is for informational purposes only and does not constitute investment, legal, tax, or financial advice. Nothing on this site should be interpreted as a solicitation, offer, or recommendation to buy or sell any securities or investment products. All investments involve risks, including the potential loss of principal.

VDB Wealth LLC provides investment advisory services only to residents of states where it is properly registered or exempt from registration. Past performance is not a guarantee of future results.

Form ADV Part 2A

VDB Wealth LLC | (415) 209-5862‬ | contact@vdbwealth.com